10 enlightening truths of life
When the winter is over, the stars and rivers grow bright.
Socrates said, "the only thing I know is that I know nothing."
We have a lot of things beyond our knowledge, and we need to learn more because we are ignorant.
here are 10 life truths to help you improve your awareness and avoid detours in life.
nothing in the world is given for nothing
relationships need to be managed with heart, money needs to be earned, and trust needs time to test.
what you want, you have to give. No one has an obligation to be kind to you except your parents.
as the saying goes, "all the gifts of fate have already been secretly priced."
Don't think that you can easily achieve anything. Everything in life requires effort and price.
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even if you can easily get some gifts in life, you will have to pay the price in the end, and the loss outweighs the gain.
networking doesn't depend on how many people you know
it's about how many people your value can help
Don't chase a horse, you use the time to chase a horse to recommend it. When the spring blossoms, you can attract a group of fine horses for you to choose from.
Don't try to curry favor with someone. Use your time without friends to improve your ability. When the time is right, you will have a group of friends to go with you.
the friends found by human feelings are only temporary, while those attracted by personality are long-lasting.
chat is comfortable not necessarily because of being in tune
it is possible to reduce dimensionality
if you are comfortable chatting with someone, it does not mean that he is your confidant, it is very likely that he is just compatible with you downwards;
his EQ, knowledge and pattern are far more than yours, so he can catch what you say, and he can sympathize with your feelings.
if he says, you will feel that he is very frequent with you, that he can talk to the bottom of your heart, don't get into it too quickly, don't think he's special.
it's possible that he's just saying the usual things and doing what he usually does, but you haven't met anyone as good as him in your circle.
you may be one of the people he can talk to, not the only one.
knowledge and body are wealth
your behavior, your way of thinking, and your pattern all come from your book knowledge and empirical knowledge.
the knowledge reserve in your mind determines how far you can go.
never too old to learn.
develop the habit of long-term learning and lifelong learning, and avoid "hate less when you use books."
physical health is a priority. Take your body seriously and take good care of yourself.
eating takeout, ordering milk tea, staying up late, smoking and drinking will only make you feel good for a while.
you may not feel much when you are young, but when you get older, you will taste the bitter fruit.
both socially and emotionally
Don't be too honest
people who are too honest always give a lot, like to be soft-hearted, and do not know how to distinguish between good and bad. If they are too kind, they are easy to be betrayed and bullied.
as the saying goes, a good man is bullied by others, and a good horse is ridden.
when a person is too honest, others will be unscrupulous to you, call you everything, and trouble you with everything.
No matter how honest you are, you have to have a temper, and no matter how soft you are, there must be a limit.
your kindness should have some sharpness.
only those who are smart and kind-hearted will get more treasure and more help.
Don't overestimate your relationship with anyone
No one wants you to be better off than the one who really loves you.
people say that they want the people around you to have a good life, but the truth is: I hope you have a good life, but you don't want to be better than him.
everyone is secretly comparing their lives with those around them.
do not easily disclose your income, high, others jealous, low, others secretly happy.
he may not be happy when you buy a house, but if you say you want a loan to buy a house and pay it back for more than ten or twenty years, they will pretend to comfort you
Don't change others
to achieve happiness
Don't expect too much of others, many things in life will not be what you want them to be.
the greater the expectation, the greater the disappointment.
everyone has their own ideas, respect the choices of others, and have a clear conscience to do what they can.
things that can be solved with money
Don't bother others
Don't bother the people around you to save some money.
Don't look for friends or relatives for things that can be done with money, otherwise it will be difficult to pay off your personal debt in the future.
money debt is easy to pay, but love debt is difficult to pay.
because the other person will always feel that you owe him a favor, when he helped you out of kindness when you were in trouble, even if you gave him a higher benefit than the market price, it was still useless.