You always break up and get back together over and over again.

I don't know how many times I've heard this sentence, because she has been on and off countless times in the two years she has been with her boyfriend.

ask her why she got back together, and she just shook her head. It took several minutes for her to reply in a very low voice, "I don't know. I just feel reluctant to give up."

I know how she feels now, because I broke up with my ex and got back together three times.

We moved in together when we were in love for almost a year. But after a long time, the friction between us began to become more and more.

after the third big quarrel, we all had the idea of "wanting to break up".

however, the idea only lasted for a short time, and we soon calmed down again-- if we split up, it would mean moving out of here and looking for a house again. what about our cats together?

not to mention that we have been together for a long time, being apart means breaking the life that has become a habit again.

so every time we break up, we still choose to get back together, and we all tell ourselves in our hearts, "I'll be all right later."

in retrospect, the problems in our failed relationship cannot be solved simply "later".

and in the end, the reason we choose to get back together rather than "still have feelings for this person" becomes that

it will be more cost-effective to stay together than to be single.

my friend didn't tell me the reason directly, but told me one thing:

"when I got off work a few days ago, I got dizzy and got on the wrong bus home. By the time I found it, I had already driven several stops. "

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"if I get off the bus, I will be drenched by the heavy rain, but if I don't get off, the direction in which the car will eventually go is not where I want to go."

when the "loss" is obvious,

instead of telling yourself to "wait", it's better to recognize another way to solve the problem quickly and stop the loss in time.

instead of telling yourself to "wait", it's better to recognize another way to solve the problem quickly and stop the loss in time.

instead of telling yourself to "wait", it's better to recognize another way to solve the problem quickly and stop the loss in time.