No life is unaggrieved. Get through it.

No life is unaggrieved. Get through it.

The adult world is far more sad than we thought.

A few days ago, I saw a video on the Internet, which instantly made my eyes red.

A couple in Harbin, Heilongjiang Province, runs a restaurant.

but under the influence of the environment, restaurants are not allowed to eat in restaurants, and very few customers order takeout.

looking at the empty restaurant, the couple hugged each other and cried bitterly.

Life is really hard, and life is not easy in the first place, which is aggravated by the arrival of all kinds of bad things.

if he is not overwhelmed by life, who is willing to expose his sadness and helplessness to outsiders.

under the video, many netizens left messages:

this is life, too sad;

I hope the bad things will pass soon, and everyone will hold on.

empathy, we all have to live.

there is a message like this:

"when I went out to run errands last morning, passing by the gate of the neighborhood, a young man held a stack of leaflets and said, 'fitness yoga Pilates, find out' and handed it to me. I waved my hand.

when I came home in the evening, I saw that the boy was still handing out leaflets at the gate of the neighborhood, and he didn't seem to have sent out many.

when I passed by, he blushed and said, 'Sir, do me a favor.'

I just picked up one and went home to sit in the chair for a long time. "

you see, in this world, no one's life is easy, and no one's job is unaggrieved.

as the writer Liu Zhenyun said:

"you can pick all the grievances in the world, but not the day. All the things in the world cannot stand up to scrutiny. Once deliberated, there are grievances hidden in everything. "

in the sea of life, everyone comes to this world with their own mission and responsibility.

the hardship and bitterness of life and the hardship and grievance of work have to be borne one by one.

the world of adults is far more sad than we thought.

No job is unaggrieved

have seen a joke:

"Don't scold young people loudly, they will resign immediately, but you can scold middle-aged people to death, especially those who have cars, houses and children."

in addition to teasing, I feel particularly sad for no reason.

when we reach middle age, we begin to become cautious and lose our temper.

even if you encounter injustice in the workplace, face the exclusion of colleagues, and are under great pressure, you still dare not have the idea of resigning.

is it that we have lost our spirit and the courage to be desperate?

maybe, yes.

because every middle-aged man knows that behind him, there are elderly parents, young children, a loving wife, and endless car loans.

therefore, they dare not shout tired, dare not stop, nor dare to resign.

think of a story I saw on the Internet:

the manager scolded a small leader in front of the management of the whole company.

those words are harsh, sharp, mean, mixed with cynicism and all kinds of derogatory remarks.

the little leader kept his head down and stood silent. When the manager lost his temper and walked away, he stayed where he was and didn't move.

after that, everyone thought that he would quit.

but he didn't, and the next day he came to the company and went to work as usual.

when we had lunch together, he was comforted. He smiled reluctantly and said something like this:

"I was so angry that I wanted to pat the table and leave on the spot. However, my parents are old, in poor health, often in hospital, and my children have to go to school, and my wife does not have a job. If I really resign, the life of this big family will have no choice but to drink from the northwest. "

I don't know since when, middle-aged people who work hard for a living seem to be the best bullies in this society.

"scold me, don't deduct my salary, don't fire me."

this sentence has become the status quo of many middle-aged people.

sometimes I wonder, what is the point of working hard and making money?

someone replied: "the real meaning of work is the capital for you to settle down, to give you the money to eat and raise children, to be filial to your parents, and to wake up in the middle of the night without fear."

Yes, we try our best to make money, but we just want to protect the people we want to protect.

it's just that no job is not hard, and no job is unaggrieved.

there are no shortcuts to the life of middle-aged people except to do their best.

who doesn't try to live while collapsing

collected a paragraph: "the world is not a pure land, each has its own sufferings, who does not sell their freedom for fuel, rice, oil and salt, who does not pawn youth and change it into bargaining chips for parents' well-being."

No one is easier to walk in the world than anyone else. Everyone has their own sorrows and sorrows.

in front of the mountain of life, everyone is the same, careful, like treading on thin ice, carrying a heavy load.

A man in Shanghai fainted in a subway car due to a sudden illness, breaking the corner of his eye and his face was covered with blood.

but the first thing he said when he woke up was, "I have to work."

because not going to work means absenteeism, the impact is that full attendance, same-day pay and performance will be deducted.

2: 00 a. M., Zhengzhou, HenanIn one of the tunnels, a takeout boy is sleeping on a battery car.

I have just experienced an unfortunate shock, so I cherish my current job even more.

after a short rest, he will still be full of energy and embark on the road of fighting for life.

"Don't laugh at me. I'll have lunch one day."

this is what a rickshaw driver said to the man who laughed at him.

he works hard for a living, but he never eats lunch every day.

he said, "I'm hungry, too, and I want to eat, but I can save 300 yuan a month to support my child's living expenses."

Mr. Liang, who was finally rescued from ICU, asked his family to deliver the computer before he was discharged from the hospital.

sitting on the hospital bed, he was struggling to sort out the report form, holding the computer in his hand.

it was not clear whether it was the pressure of life or work that made him afraid to rest, even in the hospital.

there is a line in the movie Sleepless in Seattle: "work hard, work can save you, and only work can help you tide over the difficulties."

everyone who tries to live hard has been wronged by work and slapped by life.

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who would want to leave home, get up early in the morning and get up late at night, and live so humbly if it were not for the sake of living and breaking a few taels of silver?

but I can't help it.

only by working can we make money and bring us the sense of security we want, as well as the courage to face life and the courage to fight it.

and all we can do is to run hard, work hard, try our best, and live an ordinary and ordinary life.

Life is not easy, it will get better if you endure it

likes Tagore's sentence very much:

"the sufferings you have suffered today, the losses you have suffered, the responsibilities you have borne, the sins you have borne, and the pain you have endured, will eventually turn into light and light your way forward."

has always believed that life will be bitter for a while, but not for a lifetime.

when you climb over mountains, through difficulties, through all the barriers and difficulties, you will eventually meet the life you want and become the person you want to be.

at 01:49 on April 23, 2020, my friend Xiaomi wrote a paragraph on moments: "this is the second time I cried in the back of a taxi. Maybe I'm not strong enough."

she told me that the first time she cried behind a taxi was on a summer night.

at that time, as soon as she came out of the company, the taxi driver asked, "Why are you working so late? it's almost 2 o'clock."

that's what she said. She couldn't hold back again. She sat in the back seat of the taxi and cried all the way.

actually, she didn't want to cry.

just stared at the computer screen tired, rubbed his eyes, tears fell down one by one.

and the second time, it was because when she watched her colleagues go home one after another during an event, her tears failed again.

although the work here is very hard and tired, often working overtime and staying up late to chase hot spots, sometimes Xiaomi feels that she can hardly hold on.

but she is still grateful for the experience.

it is it that gives Xiaomi a deeper understanding of the industry and has its own representative works.

and these will become the strength and capital for her to choose a company in the future.

No matter how hard or aggrieved you are in your work, you still have to stick to it no matter how hard it is.

whether it is work or life, there will always be a difficult time, but once you get through it, life will suddenly become clear.

as the aesthetician Zhu Guangqian said: "there is no period of work without grievances, no period of life without twists and turns, no period of future is destined to be bright."

Life is not easy, everyone is in their own world, suffering, holding on.

but please believe that the end of all hard work and suffering is the time of this world.

because the sky is clear when you get through it.

there is a question on the Internet: "how do you get through it when you can't make it?"

one of the answers is: "as long as life is still alive, there is nothing wrong with it."

Life gets better when it is bad to a certain extent, because it can't be worse.

after working hard, you will find a lot of things. In fact, you will survive through it.

in life, where there is sadness, there will be warmth; when there is work, there will be grievances, there will be surprises.

and no matter how long the night is, the day will come.

but before you come, please try your best to live out your own light.

one day, you will survive the wind and rain, survive the spring and autumn, and then stand in the brightest place and live like what you once wanted the most.