Fail, and then take advantage of it.

Fail, and then take advantage of it.

Recently, I saw a private letter from a reader on Weibo, in which she mentioned a lot of her recent "failures".

I was at a loss as to what to do after I still failed in the postgraduate entrance examination in World War II. I also felt guilty after seeing that my father said, "I can't support you for three wars." the most distressing thing is a roommate who has always been unable to get up. The sentence she posted in the moments, "finally came ashore."

when I saw this private message, I didn't think much about it. I replied directly: "you can't compete with her, and you weren't going to go to the same school, so from a rational point of view, you are not comparable at all."

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but maybe it was because I drank frozen lemon tea that day that I lay in bed thinking, "Why can she, but I can't even worry about it?"

Why is it that she /he can, but I can't even risk it?

Why is it that she /he can, but I can't even risk it?

I don't know why, but this question reminds me of some of the movie characters that have impressed me recently:

this question reminds me of some of the movie characters that have impressed me recently:

this question reminds me of some of the movie characters that have impressed me recently:

this question reminds me of some of the movie characters that have impressed me recently:

this question reminds me of some of the movie characters that have impressed me recently:

it seems that the happiest times in their lives exist in the past, and then as long as they continue to open their eyes, everything they encounter must be bad, and it will be worse.

since I saw the seal on my doorstep one afternoon in the second year of junior high school, the day that "it is bound to get worse and worse" has become my norm.

but you may not even realize that the bad situation will really cause the body to enter the "wartime situation": "keep the lowest absorption, and all the rest will be used for output."

I remember the time when I rode my bike around town whenever I was free, trying not to go home.

but bringing up these things again is not to win the qualification to ask questions, but because I want to talk about what happens after I have asked.

"Why can they all live easily while I can't?"

until something happened to me.

I remember that both hands were bruised and my white T-shirt was covered with mud and blood.

she laughed and then said, "what a shame, no one here knows you anyway. Keep riding."

No one knows you anyway, so what about the mud?

it's all like this anyway, what else can I do?

of course, it takes a lot of effort and skill to do these things, but without a "anyway" mentality, I don't think I can survive the hard times of the first two years of chaos.

Don't worry, I'm not writing this to give you chicken soup from a different angle.

what is meant by "taking advantage of failure"?

in your case, you can think of "failure" as the result of "doing something more difficult": "because it is a little more difficult, failure is taken for granted."

but today is more difficult, fail; tomorrow is more difficult, fail; the day after tomorrow is more difficult, fail again.

finally, one day in the future, you will encounter an opportunity that really belongs to you, and you will find that this is the feeling of "not failing".

good night.

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