Don't bother someone who doesn't want to talk to you.
When it comes to feelings, it makes sense to go in both directions.
people who don't want to reply to your messages don't have you in their hearts
on the Internet, there was a discussion about "is a person really too busy to reply to your message?"
the most popular message in the comment area is:
"in this age of mobile phones, no one is really too busy to reply to a message.
the gap between waiting for a red light, drinking a glass of water, going to the toilet.
people who love you will find time for you in the midst of their busy schedule, and people who don't love you always have excuses. "
Yes, in the adult world, there is no reply, isn't it the clearest reply?
have you ever had such a time in your life:
"send a message to someone with joy, and then wait for ta's response with anticipation."
even if you go to the bathroom or take a shower, you have to take your cell phone with you for fear of missing the news of ta.
even made enough excuses for ta's delay in coming back, maybe he was busy, maybe he didn't see it, or...
but in the end, I just let myself down and sad again and again. "
those who fall into the dust of love, never produce joy.
you can never wake someone who is pretending to be asleep, still less can you move someone who doesn't love you.
has always agreed with that sentence:
"people who really like you are reluctant to ignore you for a long time. Ta will try his best to squeeze into your world and contact you in any way."
Love is the hardest thing to hide. It cares, misses, and can't wait to see you.
if someone doesn't reply to you all the time, please believe that ta is not really busy, ta is just not free for you; ta is not always busy, but you are not that important.
people who really care about you are reluctant to snub you
not long ago, I saw a moving piece of news.
A male driver drove through an artificial window on the highway and handed a flower to the staff while the female staff was looking for change for him.
it turned out that the paid staff member was his wife, and that day was his wife's birthday.
because his wife could not have a holiday, he created a "chance encounter" in this way.
in fact, his car also installed ETC, but the ETC traffic is too fast, in order to see his wife more, so he deliberately took the artificial passage.
I think, this is really care about it, the heart is full of you, even if there is no opportunity, but also to create opportunities to see you.
like that sentence: "whatever you love is across the mountain and the sea, the mountain and the sea can be flat; the sea has a boat to cross, and the mountain has a road."
people who love you have never been reluctant to snub you, even if they don't say it, the emotions they care about have long been hidden in the dribs and drabs of life.
I remember once when I was on a business trip with a male colleague.
although there are no romantic love words, it is not the most valuable truth to be missed by his husband for fear that his wife will lose his news and contact him as soon as he has the opportunity.
Zhang ailing once said:
"if a person is not free, it is because he does not want to be free; if a person can not leave, it is because he does not want to go away; if a person gives you too many excuses, it is because he does not want to care about you at all."
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people who care about you have a thousand reasons to love you, and people who don't care about you have all kinds of excuses to snub you.
if there is such a person, ta wipes his hands while taking a bath and wants to read your message while waiting for the red light, no matter how busy he is, he will find time for you, then ta must love you deeply.
emotional things, two-way travel is meaningful
in the message area backstage, I saw a sad story.
A netizen named @ Shadow secretly sat in a hard seat for 12 hours to another city to accompany his boyfriend for the New year and give him a surprise.
the train is very crowded and the weather is very cold, but netizens are infinitely warm at the thought of being patient and meeting the person they like.
unexpectedly, the first thing her boyfriend said when he saw her was:
"Why did you come here without saying hello in advance, messing up all my plans?
remember a sentence: "it's useless to like, it doesn't matter how much you like, but it's useful to like each other."
A person, no matter how hard ta tries, can't act well in the play of affection.
because emotion is always a movie between two people, wishful thinking can not get close to another heart, but with the wrong affection, it just annoys others and humiliates itself.
whether it is love or friendship, it makes sense to go in both directions.
the best relationship in the world is when you are desperate to be a person.And that person is responding enthusiastically to you.
likes a paragraph very much:
"the so-called two-way trip is about:
I suddenly woke up one morning and said to you, I really want to see you, and then you reply to me: me too, I'm coming to pick you up.
instead of you sleeping, leaving me to miss secretly, it's not just forget it until tomorrow, or you're too tired to come out. "
two people work hard in the same direction to reach the destination they both aspire to; only when they take turns accommodating, giving and being moved, will there be Tian Chang Di Jiu (Eternal Dumpling).
there is a good saying: "there are always people who think you are not good enough, and there are people who think you are good anywhere." You don't have to stand on tiptoe, those who love you will bend over for you. "
for those who don't love you, your affection is a burden, and your giving is entanglement.
and in the eyes of those who love you, everything is beautiful.
the rest of life is not long, and it is really expensive. We should not only learn and practice and cherish it, but also know how to give up while walking.
if there is no response, there is no need to continue to cling to it.
Don't bother people who don't want to talk to you.
leave your precious heart and true feelings to the person whose eyes are full of you to spend the rest of his life together.