Since you can't change the world, you might as well try to strengthen your heart.
Xin Qiji, a poet of the Southern Song Dynasty, had a word: "sigh life, unsatisfactory things, ten often eight or nine."
the background of life is sad, often think about one or two, do not think about eight or nine, can be "everything goes well".
as Mr. Feng Zikai said:
since there is nowhere to escape, it is better to rejoice;
since there is no pure land, it is better to be pure-hearted; since you have failed to get what you want, you might as well be relieved.
since you can't change the world, try to strengthen your heart.
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in this life, only a strong heart can cure everything.
the stronger the heart is, the more gentle you are.
the great wise will be modest, and the great good will be tolerant.
Zeng Guofan, a famous minister in the late Qing Dynasty, once met an official's eight-lift sedan chair on his way to court.
as soon as the other party saw that he was carrying four sedan chairs, he did not take it seriously.
without giving way in time, the sedan chair man pulled Zeng Guofan out of the sedan chair without saying a word.
when this official looked at it, he was so scared that he kowtowed hurriedly to apologize.
Zeng Guofan did not get angry, but picked him up and said with a smile:
"it is the official's sedan chair that stands in the way of adults. I don't blame you, I don't blame you.
tolerance is the noblest revenge.
I could have scolded you severely, but I chose to ignore it.
because there is a great goodness in the heart, all bad things are small things.
to be considerate of others is to make a big deal smaller and please yourself.
the stronger one is, the kinder and gentler he will be.
when you are gentle, the world becomes soft.
be strong in heart and heal yourself
Lin Yutang said: "only when people can raise their own level to a higher level will they not be saddened by recent depression."
the higher the state of mind, the stronger the adversity quotient, the more you can achieve yourself in the midst of tribulations.
in the spring of 1082 AD, Su Shi went to Huangzhou for the third spring.
Su Shi made an appointment with his friends for a spring outing, and the wind and rain came suddenly on the way, and there was no shelter from the rain nearby, and everyone was confused.
Su Shi took it calmly, wandered in the rain, and realized something. A moment later, he wrote the famous novel "Dingfeng Slope":
"Bamboo stick and awn shoes are better than horses, who is afraid?" A haze of misty rain will lead a lifetime. "
what is this little wind and rain?
even if I wear a coir raincoat and let you beat the wind and rain, I can still be optimistic and open-minded.
it doesn't matter if you don't want to have an official career. Bamboo sticks and awn shoes also walk calmly and unrestrained.
No wonder Lin Yutang commented on him in this way: "people like Su Dongpo can't have two without one in the world."
people have to fend for themselves.
as long as our hearts are strong enough, what we go through and try to break us will make us better ourselves.
strong heart, heal all things
there is a saying in Historical Records:
"Shun, not overjoyed; rebellious, not discouraged; safe, not extravagant; dangerous, not frightened; those who have thunder in the chest and face like Pinghu can worship the general."
the stronger one is, the greater he tends to be.
Mr. Yang Jiang is such a person.
in 1997, Qian Kui, her daughter, whom she called "the only masterpiece of her life", died.
the night before her daughter left, she held her daughter's hand and said, "sleep well, Dad and I, wish you a good night's sleep."
the next year, when her husband was on his deathbed and didn't close his eyes, she said in her ear, "Don't worry, I'm here."
she once mentioned, "Zhong Shu has escaped, and I want to escape, but where to? I have to stay in the world, clean the scene, and do my duty."
she was the only one left in the home full of laughter and laughter.
by herself, she quietly sorted out the manuscript notes left by Qian Zhongshu and spent nearly ten years to get all those books published.
how strong a person should be in order to remain calm and elegant under the pressure of life.
Mr. Yang Jiang said:
"We were so eager for the waves of fate that we finally found that the most beautiful scenery in life is the calmness and calmness of the heart.
We were so looking forward to the recognition of the outside world that we finally found that the world is our own and has nothing to do with others. "
it turns out that calmness and calmness in life is the antidote to everything in the world.
I think of a sentence in Cai Gentan: "all people rejoice in prosperity, but a gentleman delights in adversity."
there is no plain sailing life, but people with a strong heart have long learned to cure everything.